How to be happy

Leave the expectations from others or to leave those irritating people.
Happiness not something to be earned but to be experienced,by  anything you saw or experienced could make you feel happy,it's different from everything we had experienced or earned.One can get happiness even in reading a book or one can't get it in a luxury car or something like that.Everything depends on how we saw things around us and how we take those things on us.As we certainly get stuck on something which is not a way serious but is connect by our closed one's and we can't get over it or can't forget. and ultimately ruined our bond and relationships with them and we loose our happiness
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So the thing is what actually happiness is??
Anything that fills you with joy,fills you with excitement,energy,enthusiasm and the ability to express your emotions to everyone with a smile on your face.It can come from a winning of a lottery,unexpected gifts,unexpected meetings with your loved ones, a yes for you were waiting for or anything you can say,you know what I am talking about.
But there are certain things that came up with happiness and is the person with whom it's been associated or that special person who is the reason for your happiness but the thing is the same person makes you to feel sad or hurts you.But it's not the person who hurts you but it's your consistently increasing expectations does as the person, whom you love consistently gives his\her efforts to fullfill them but somewhere somehow something doesn't workout and at last we become sad.To overcome from this thing we have one more intense feeling than love and that is the sense of understanding because everyone in this world want's someone to understand his\her feelings and situations and embrace his\her efforts so that everyone related with this sort of thing will be ultimately happy.
There is a simple one-line code to be followed in order to be happy and that is "Do more and expect less".Give most of your efforts and expect less from others so that whatever you will get, it will be more than your expectation and will ultimately make you happy.
Happiness doesn't require a large amount of money or wealth but it just require a bit of care,attention for you and for the work you done and when it is one-sided it obviously hurt's.
Beside the simple one-liner for happiness, one small thing you could do is to change your perspective for everything you saw in daily basis and for sure you may find your life a way more interesting and full of joy,happiness and enthusiasm as these three are the key elements to live life.As it is easy to survive but hard to live and we are born to live life.
Atlast may god bless us to live life happily and make others happy and help them to find the happiness and the reasons to live the life.

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