(: Goal setting
Since our childhood we all have been thinking of becoming this or that and to be rich someday or own a villa, not only me or you think like this only but almost everyone does.
What we are doing is "setting a goal",and there is nothing bad in it and it's necessary and to whom we called is successful if he/she achieves his/her desires i.e. goals.But what we are doing is collectively wrong as it's good to setting up goals but we are setting up more then long term, even you don't know when you are going to achieve it.In all these more then long term goals , they require so many years of regular work and much time, then their is negligible possibility to achieve your desire.When someone says that he/she will be successful one day and will earn so much money depicts that they are not clear with goals and what to do in their life.
So,if you wanna achieve what you want, you have to make short term goals first to achieve your ultimate desire to be rich or to own something etc etc ...
Short term goals can be to wake up early or to do your homework or to score good in tests that too will help to achieve your desire, but do we know how, surely not; that I will tell you later .
So, at first you have to is to identify what you have to do in life and makes you to do it.Their are so many factors affecting it and enforces you to decide your career and goal.Goal is nothing but what you want to do or that level when you get satisfied by what you have done and it can only be achieved by being happy rather than being frustrated or tensed you have to be satisfied by what you have done and from its results.But at one point being satisfied is not good because being unsatisfied forces you to do better and to put more efforts in it.
As we know the ultimate goal of our life is to be happy and can only be achieved by being satisfied and by achieving your goals, so for achieving all your goals and making yourself successful there are few steps you surely have to do to get what you want. We all know that the one who fails is the one who tried. First is to understand what is success and who is successful .
Once Winston Churchill,former British PM said very well that , "If you are going through hell,then keep going", because one day you will surely passed through and can get into the heaven, but you must have to move in spite of being there and to wait.We all know that fear is must, to do any work but if it is over the limit, it acts as a destructive .So coming upon both the things to move and fear and you can achieve what you want.
Luck and coincidence are external factors and are out of hands.Since our childhood we all are listening to that to see dreams and make them happen but soon we have been realized by those too that you can't do it.Things we take are not out of hands we just don't try.
We should know what we have to do in life and have a proper plan for our goals. Whenever you may ask someone their goals and if they respond like to be rich someday and own a villa or blah blah blah.... it means they have not planned it yet and are not focused about their goals. For generations, a theory has been set up that being rich is success, yes it's true but not always money can make you happy for a bit but not satisfied but will surely make you greedy one. Obviously money is very important to live the life you want, but not always. From all these we got to know that setting a proper goal is important and without goal life is clueless. let me take an example-
"Would you sit in a train or a plane without knowing where it
was going? The obvious answer is no. Then why do people
go through life without having any goals?"
So must think before you plan your goals as a matter of life and it includes so much thing, their are just few steps for setting and achieving goals----
Decide,
Write it down,
Tell someone or yourself to make clear to yourself,
Break your goal down,
Plan for your first step
Implement it,
work hard and don't step backward if you are right
If fail, try again
Celebrate your success
Take care of small things, big things will take care by themselves.
My primary goal is to find my happy place, tell me yours..:)
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