We Need Us
We need our people to protect ourself from the destruction we had made in our life.
But what we do,we shout,blame,fight and stop talking instead of discussing what the thing really is.We can see so many people suffering with the lack of company when they really want someone to talk with,help them to come over with the mental situation which is tough enough and this loneliness ultimately takes one into the deep ocean of depression,where their can be no one present to help them. But their is one simple step to help someone to overcome or could stop them and that is a sweet,impactful conversation instead of shouting and blaming the person.
It's so easy to talk politely and to build up the confidence,and it's actually same as of giving or saving a life.As the ultimate consequence of depression is lost of a life of one such person and people associated with him\her.
Everything we do, has some impact on people associated with us,either friends or family. Our actions,conversations surely does impacts on our associated ones and we never notice it...
Point is, we don't think about others.If we don't think about the impact of our actions on others, it makes us selfish and others sad and make them feel inferior. This normal tendency is the root of depression on others as we never appreciate them for their work and efforts, never talk to them politely ever, for their mistakes for which they are trying to overcome, it hurts really very hard and forces them to believe them as a culprit and blaming themselves.
When someone starts to blame itself, it's the first stage of depression that is being imposed on you by others and it's on our hand to stop.
Second is when you are punishing someone for a long time, it only imposes a sense of being a rebel for your actions and then you again punish them and it ultimately leads them to the trauma of regrets and self blaming.
Their is no rocket science in cheering up someone,who comes to you for help because even a sweet,polite conversation could help them and he\she needs your support and a believe that you will stand with him\her when he\she will need help and knowingly or unknowingly you just saved a life.
But what we do,we shout,blame,fight and stop talking instead of discussing what the thing really is.We can see so many people suffering with the lack of company when they really want someone to talk with,help them to come over with the mental situation which is tough enough and this loneliness ultimately takes one into the deep ocean of depression,where their can be no one present to help them. But their is one simple step to help someone to overcome or could stop them and that is a sweet,impactful conversation instead of shouting and blaming the person.
It's so easy to talk politely and to build up the confidence,and it's actually same as of giving or saving a life.As the ultimate consequence of depression is lost of a life of one such person and people associated with him\her.
Everything we do, has some impact on people associated with us,either friends or family. Our actions,conversations surely does impacts on our associated ones and we never notice it...
Point is, we don't think about others.If we don't think about the impact of our actions on others, it makes us selfish and others sad and make them feel inferior. This normal tendency is the root of depression on others as we never appreciate them for their work and efforts, never talk to them politely ever, for their mistakes for which they are trying to overcome, it hurts really very hard and forces them to believe them as a culprit and blaming themselves.
When someone starts to blame itself, it's the first stage of depression that is being imposed on you by others and it's on our hand to stop.
Second is when you are punishing someone for a long time, it only imposes a sense of being a rebel for your actions and then you again punish them and it ultimately leads them to the trauma of regrets and self blaming.
Their is no rocket science in cheering up someone,who comes to you for help because even a sweet,polite conversation could help them and he\she needs your support and a believe that you will stand with him\her when he\she will need help and knowingly or unknowingly you just saved a life.
nice article bro
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