Do Success and Failure go Hand in Hand???
What makes us sad?
Being unable to achieve our desires just like good marks,decent job, a healthy relationship,fitness or any wealthy thing that you want. But do we know what all these things are when we can't get them??
Yes , it's a failure when, we can't achieve what we want is called failure, and it's bad, isn't it?
For most of us it's yes as we all are afraid of failure but everyone want success but we don't know both these things come hand in hand.To get something you have to pay some just like you want to succeed then you have to pay via failure i.e. all your efforts you had put on it.
We are afraid of failure thus, we don't try.
Somewhat inside us we are afraid of failure , thus we don't try and it depicts us how weak we are, we can't even handle our failure and that is the main reason why we don't try. If target is too big as too big to hit hit then similarly it's too big to miss.
And to grab an opportunity is our moral duty but we think it will came towards us but it's an exception, we have to grab it.We simply wait for right time but why do we forget that the best time to start anything is now ,and we certainly do shits at important places and occasions which ultimately ruins us.Discussing a healthy relationship between success and failure is as simple as either heads or tail of coin as they measure success as absolute success or as absolute failure while some of us measures it as relative success .Here absolute means exact what they wan't and they get it and even if they get a little down or less then their goal it's failure for them and for people believing in relative success that they can negotiate with their goals. In order to achieve what we really want in our life we forget as we don't know that we are stuck in the dilemma of various things such as between passion and career , love or attraction and hard work and smart work.
Since our childhood we all are taught to work hard and to work smart and now we are confused that which is better just like if you fail will, you be others guide others or a learner who had learned not to do this again, if you had to pass in any phase of work or anything.
The topic which is given above is not as hard as you take it as a child but not as simple if you take it as an adult , so here too, you are stucked in dilemma that whether the given is hard or not; but it's answer is on you that how do you take it.
If you take it to differentiate between success and failure it's too simple that if you wanna achieve something and you does it, it's success otherwise it's failure but if you wanna know it's relationship , it's pretty hypothetical for all of us, we all know it's either success or failure but the way of success is through failures because if you fail you try to succeed and one day you did it.
I wanna conclude all the things mentioned above in simpler wanna way then, success is nothing but achieving your goals, but to achieve it you must have to try and while trying you can fail sometimes not always and after so many efforts you did it, you achieved what you wan't partially or exactly, and you will not get any feel of success if you never fail. To achieve something after being failed at same is a bit adventurous .
These are the little steps just to show you how to achieve your goals simply by changing your mindset and to achieve it.
So best of for all you are willing to achieve someday, may not too early but definitely one day...:):):)
Being unable to achieve our desires just like good marks,decent job, a healthy relationship,fitness or any wealthy thing that you want. But do we know what all these things are when we can't get them??
Yes , it's a failure when, we can't achieve what we want is called failure, and it's bad, isn't it?
For most of us it's yes as we all are afraid of failure but everyone want success but we don't know both these things come hand in hand.To get something you have to pay some just like you want to succeed then you have to pay via failure i.e. all your efforts you had put on it.
We are afraid of failure thus, we don't try.
Somewhat inside us we are afraid of failure , thus we don't try and it depicts us how weak we are, we can't even handle our failure and that is the main reason why we don't try. If target is too big as too big to hit hit then similarly it's too big to miss.
And to grab an opportunity is our moral duty but we think it will came towards us but it's an exception, we have to grab it.We simply wait for right time but why do we forget that the best time to start anything is now ,and we certainly do shits at important places and occasions which ultimately ruins us.Discussing a healthy relationship between success and failure is as simple as either heads or tail of coin as they measure success as absolute success or as absolute failure while some of us measures it as relative success .Here absolute means exact what they wan't and they get it and even if they get a little down or less then their goal it's failure for them and for people believing in relative success that they can negotiate with their goals. In order to achieve what we really want in our life we forget as we don't know that we are stuck in the dilemma of various things such as between passion and career , love or attraction and hard work and smart work.
Since our childhood we all are taught to work hard and to work smart and now we are confused that which is better just like if you fail will, you be others guide others or a learner who had learned not to do this again, if you had to pass in any phase of work or anything.
The topic which is given above is not as hard as you take it as a child but not as simple if you take it as an adult , so here too, you are stucked in dilemma that whether the given is hard or not; but it's answer is on you that how do you take it.
If you take it to differentiate between success and failure it's too simple that if you wanna achieve something and you does it, it's success otherwise it's failure but if you wanna know it's relationship , it's pretty hypothetical for all of us, we all know it's either success or failure but the way of success is through failures because if you fail you try to succeed and one day you did it.
I wanna conclude all the things mentioned above in simpler wanna way then, success is nothing but achieving your goals, but to achieve it you must have to try and while trying you can fail sometimes not always and after so many efforts you did it, you achieved what you wan't partially or exactly, and you will not get any feel of success if you never fail. To achieve something after being failed at same is a bit adventurous .
So best of for all you are willing to achieve someday, may not too early but definitely one day...:):):)
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