Is it worst or not to get detached??

Attachments are the worst as they bounds you in some boundaries and limitations.We can be attached to anything and it will seems us attachment .We can be attached to anything it can be living or non-living thing, it can be object, a relation or the presence of someone special .
But do we know why it  is worst??
Actually it's not worst always but most of the times. We do get attached and detach and this cycle goes on and all these things creates us ultimately. All these attachments and then detach from somethings brings some change in your self and we have been taught from childhood that life is all about change and to get attached to someone and then to get detached is a change too but not life at all. 
At first we do get attached to something, start liking it's presence or use later we got addicted and then we have to do left it forcefully or not. And what we get--> we got hurt and get emotional , waste our time thinking about our memories with it and start living in past but it does not a practical thing that you can live in as and someday you have to move as one can't go back in time fix it.
It's exact same for breakup of a relation or to lost something either living or nonliving and only thing you can do is to move on and don't have a good choice either then to move on. But move doesn't mean to forgot all but to give less importance or according to time as your past should not affect your presence and future.
It's human nature to get attached to something and it's natures rule of change and to get detached but we don't understand.All the stated above does not mean that after being separated or detached just forgot it, no it's not right but we should give it only that much of importance that it requires.Moving on after any detachment does not simply to forgot everything but it means to give less importance then you are giving it right now because after it is a past and to live in a past is not practical and you have to live in present to work for your future. 
Attachments are not worst after all, we makes it what it looks to, it's not as complicated as we make it but it's too much difficult to live with past and to be emotional about it. Move is such a great word to get out from it. Attachment means love to something doesn't it's living or non-living but it's not easy to get away from it but after all we have to live in presence and make our future after it's not possible to live in past or to back into it or to change we can only accept what had happen and to move on.

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